Welcome Healing Humans,
Have you ever been caught out by your kid?
Like, you’ve explicitly ‘taught’ them something, then they have pointed out that you are not actioning what you taught?
Do you see this as a gift?
Or an aggravation?
Or both?
I certainly have and some days I really have to take a moment to acknowledge that when this happens, it's an opportunity for me to reflect on how authentic I am being.
Is that thing I taught them based on my own views/beliefs?
Or is it because that's what I was told as a kid?
Digging deep when these moments pop up gives an opportunity to genuinely reflect and begin to parent based on your own TRUTH and AUTHENTIC self.
And, this is an opportunity to show our kids that we mess up too - and it's ok. Recognising, acknowledging, apologising and revising ourselves to adjust to BEING who we ARE the gift you are then sharing with your them.
Want to contribute?
Email your contributions to: louisehadfield@heal-the-parent-heal-the-child.xyz
Enjoy!
Thank you for being a part of the Parenting Revolution
Love Lou
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